“I deeply believe in God, even though I have never seen Him. I believe in the law of existence and in His grace and favour upon my life. However, there is something remarkable I have noticed about destiny helpers; they are like God in human form.
“Imagine someone working tirelessly day and night, only to take the fruits of their hard labour and transfer them to my account—just like that! Think about the risks some people endure to ensure others live a better life.
“Let’s pause for a moment and reflect. A person wakes up in the middle of the night, strategising on how to connect the dots, taking both calculated and uncalculated risks to make money. Then, without any obligation, they simply transfer that hard-earned money to someone who had no part in their struggles. Isn’t that extraordinary?
“Let’s consider the lives of some generous individuals. I firmly believe that there is no easy way to make money. The road to success is not just rough but incredibly challenging. I have great respect for money because earning it requires extraordinary intelligence and effort. Therefore, whenever people generously give me their hard-earned money, I don’t take it for granted. I see my destiny helpers as God in human form.”
Mogaji Wole Arisekola, a renowned media entrepreneur and successful businessman, by all standards, made the above submission on God and destiny helpers on his Facebook page, recently.
He did not stop at that; he went on to thank all those who contributed in one way or the other to the success of the high-profiled wedding of his daughter, held in Lagos last December.
“Many people have contributed their hard-earned money, ranging from thousands of U.S. dollars to millions of Naira towards my daughter’s wedding. I am at a loss for words to express my gratitude for your generosity. Deep in my heart, you are not just benefactors but amazing angels—my destiny helpers, my God in human form.
“I do not take your support—both moral and financial—for granted. Your contributions have transformed my life for the better and have elevated me to a new level of financial stability. I am profoundly indebted to all of you.
“My prayer is that you will continue to receive blessings throughout your lives. I appreciate you all, and may God always bless and guide you. Thank you very much,” Mogaji Arisekola wrote on his Facebook page on Saturday, 18 January, 2025.
The humble submission from such a highly-placed individual who is also a well-known philanthropist was the needed impetuous to further enrich my knowledge about destiny helpers: who are they? What are their assigned roles in the life of lesser individuals? What can one do to meet his/her destiny helpers? What could hinder the destiny helpers from reaching out to fulfill their roles in the lives of their assigned beneficiaries?
A destiny-helper is someone who plays a significant role in helping you achieve your goals, fulfill your potential, or realise your purpose in life. They are individuals who, knowingly or unknowingly, provide guidance, support, opportunities, or resources that propel you forward on your journey.
Characteristics of destiny helpers
Destiny helpers are supportive. They encourage and uplift you, especially during challenging times.
They are resourceful. They may provide financial assistance, connections, or mentorship.
Destiny helpers are vision-aligned. They often share or understand your vision and contribute to its realisation.
They are timely. They come into your life at the right moment, often when you need them most.
Another major characteristic of destiny helpers is that they have transformative influence on the life of their beneficiary. Their involvement leads to significant, positive changes in your life.
Types of destiny helpers
Destiny helpers are mentors. They are often people who guide you with their wisdom and experience.
They are connectors; they are mainly individuals who link their beneficiaries to opportunities or influential people.
They are mostly encouragers. They motivate and inspire you to keep going, even the going becomes tougher and rougher.
They are resource providers. They are mostly people with vast and abundant resources who have hearts of gold and offer material or financial help.
Destiny helpers are challengers who would always strive to push you out of your comfort zone and help you grow.
How to recognise your destiny helpers
Destiny helpers are notch higher than their beneficiaries as they add value to your life in ways that align with your purpose or aspirations.
Their presence often accelerates your progress or helps overcome significant hurdles.
Destiny helpers are often angelic in their actions; they might come from unexpected places or circumstances.
How to attract and keep destiny helpers
For you to be able to attract your destiny helpers, you must be open and approachable. You should be deliberately receptive to help and new relationships.
You should cultivate the habit of gratitude. Learn to appreciate those who assist you, no matter how small their contribution.
Light abhors darkness. To be able to attract and keep your destiny helpers, be a helper too. Learn to reach out to others; offer value to others as relationships thrive on mutual support.
Stay focused on your purpose. Destiny helpers are often drawn to those with clarity of vision and determination.
It is a truism that God cannot be equated with any human. But destiny helpers are humans divinely and strategically positioned to help you arrive at your expected end. They are pivotal in your journey to success. They act as catalysts for your eventual growth and transformation.
In essence, while God is your Maker who divinely created you for a purpose, your destiny-helpers are the fulcrum for the realisation of your divine mission.
